Cyberbullying
is sending or posting harmful or cruel text or images
using the Internet or other digital communication devices
Where
does cyberbullying happen?
Anywhere technology exists. Though cyberbullying is most
commonly executed through instant messenger services, such
as AIM, ICQ or MSN, it also happens in chat rooms, personal
Web sites, blogs, online journals and cell phones. Who is cyberbullying?
Anyone with access to communication technology and
an intent to harm someone else can be a cyberbully. Secondary
school girls
and boys surveyed about the frequency of cyberbullying reported
that it most commonly occurred during their middle school
years.
Why do kids cyberbully?
Today’s
tech-savvy youth use the Internet as a social tool to chat
with friends, make plans, send invitations and
connect with others who share their interests. Most kids
know that name-calling, harassment and other forms of taunting
are wrong. So why do they do it in cyberspace?
Anonymity – Kids
can tease and humiliate one another without their identity
ever being known; further, a cyberbully
may not see the hurtful reaction of their target, thereby
reducing empathetic feelings toward them.
Empowerment – When kids either can’t find the
courage to confront someone they are in conflict with, or
their social status makes them feel disempowered, cyberbullying
can seem like a "safe" way to retaliate.
Entertainment – Adolescents
reported that the number one reason they engaged
in relationally aggressive behaviours (i.e. malicious gossip,
rumour spreading, building alliances) was excitement. The
drama that surrounds adolescent relationships is perceived
as fun for teens...unless of course, you are the target.
Instant
Gratification – Impulsivity seems to
be a trademark of adolescent behaviour. An angry teen
may react to an emotional
situation by sending a harsh e-mail or text message before
fully considering its consequences.
Mass
Audience – A cyberbully can achieve their goal
of humiliating another person by reaching a potentially huge
online audience. Away messages, blogs, online journals and
Web sites can achieve the same effect of the "bathroom
walls" of generations past.
How easy is it to cyberbully?
You may think that it would be difficult for kids who do
not have access to expensive or complex software to become
cyberbullies. Think again!
Many online companies offer free Web design software or
free Web space for the common user. Most common for adolescents
is MySpace.com. Most online journals and blogs are free and
only require a login name and password.
Instant messaging systems are free to download from Yahoo,
MSN, AIM, and ICQ.
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